I just came across a great argument - an argument I've been trying to make for a long time - about the legitimacy of sexuality and sexual concentration (as opposed to obsession or addiction), and I want all of you to read it, because it's the best thing I've read in awhile; you can take my word for it.
My Vision For A Sexual World
I found it by way of Wayne's Nude Musicians, who found it on Sex Is Not The Enemy (which is a great song by the way). The latter blog is quite a find, you should check it out. The pictures may be fun, but the quotes are where it's at. Go ahead and scroll through the pages for a bit. It's really inspiring. I promise.
P.S. Here are a few more posts from Greta Christina's Blog. All of these are highly recommended reading.
Porn, Social Criticism, and the Marginalization of Kink
Why Porn Matters
Sex Writers, Drooling Horndogs, and the Suspectability of Male Sexuality
Sex and the Off-Label Use of Our Bodies
Is All Porn the Same?
Sex -- The Great Exception
Sex, and the Difference between Jaded and Relaxed
Sexual Perspective, Or, How Can You Eat That?
Are You A Sex Addict?
True Love Waits... And The Rest Of Us Get On With Our Sex Lives
Right Wing Hypocrisy, or Why Sex Guilt Fucks Things Up For Everyone